Sunday, August 30, 2015

What Defiles Us

Now when the Pharisees and some of the scribes who had come from Jerusalem gathered around him, they noticed that some of his disciples were eating with defiled hands, that is, without washing them. (For the Pharisees, and all the Jews, do not eat unless they thoroughly wash their hands, thus observing the tradition of the elders; and they do not eat anything from the market unless they wash it; and there are also many other traditions that they observe, the washing of cups, pots, and bronze kettles). So the Pharisees and the scribes asked him, “Why do your disciples not live according to the tradition of the elders, but eat with defiled hands?” He said to them, “Isaiah prophesied rightly about hypocrites, as it is written, ‘This people honors me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me; in vain do they worship me, teaching human precepts as doctrines.’ You abandon the commandment of God and hold to human tradition.” Then he called the crowd again and said to them, “Listen to me, all of you, and understand: there is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile, but the things the come out are what defile.”

Mark 7:1-8; 14-15

"What Defiles Us"


“This people honors me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me…you abandon the commandment of God and hold to human tradition…there is nothing outside a person that by going in can defile, but the things that come out are what defile.” Some pretty tough and harsh words, some pretty telling words from Jesus to the Pharisees here. You know, the Pharisees often get a bad rap—they get blamed, discounted for being self-righteous, rigid, and unyielding, for being unfaithful. They cling to the laws of the temple, wanting everyone to be clean before they can worship, calling out folks when they disobey the laws they think keep them from God. I don’t think they are unfaithful, but just the opposite—they are incredibly faithful folks, leaders who have spent much time studying, leaders who know the law backwards and forwards, leaders who want folks to spend their time worshiping God in the best way possible. I don’t think they’re unfaithful, but I do sometimes think their religious fervor for God shields them from seeing the bigger point—that God has created each one of us, that we are all called to worship God no matter who we are or what is happening in our lives, no matter whether we have time to stop and wash our hands first. Because of their fervor, they miss the idea that their words and actions can sometimes be so harsh that they keep wanderers and non-believers and people who have been hurt by the church from seeing God through each one of them. Their words and actions turn people away from God instead of welcoming them to God, and Jesus rightly calls them out on it. It is not what goes into us that defiles and keeps us from God, but instead what comes out—our harsh words and horrible actions towards each other, our judgments about our neighbors. Indeed, what comes out of us is what defiles.

If you’ve been paying attention to the news in our country this week, you’ve seen much that defiles, much that hurts, much that keeps us from God. You’ve seen defilement through internet and body shaming—an intelligent, beautiful weather reporter in Philadelphia, a woman who is healthy and 38 weeks pregnant with twin girls (and somehow still on air when I would be in bed)—called fat, called a sausage in a casing, told online that her pregnant abdomen sticking out is disgusting. Horrible. Internet shaming. Body shaming. It is what defiles us.

If you’ve been paying attention, you’ve seen a fraternity at Old Dominion University suspended for signs hung on its house at freshman orientation: “Freshman daughter drop off. Hope your baby girl is ready for a good time. Go ahead and drop mom off, too.” Horrible. Blatant misogyny and sexism in a university where parents hope their 18 year old daughters will be held safe from harm. It is what defiles us.

And even if you weren’t watching the news this week, you still know about the tragedy in Virginia. A 24 year old reporter shot to death on air while her 27 year old cameraman dropped his camera as he also died from the gun. Both in love, both happy, both remembered in pictures with great big smiles on their faces. A gunman who was disturbed. A gunman who was able to buy 2 handguns at the same time. A gunman who was too angry to seek healthy help, angry enough to attach a Go Pro to himself and record the whole thing as it played out. Anger, and the inability to find healthy ways to deal with it. Violence. Weapons strong enough to kill someone in one shot. It is what defiles us.

I don’t confess to know whether the gunman was a Christian, or the folks who said and say horrible, shaming things to others on the internet, or the guys in the fraternity who actually thought it was ok to say sexist things to their classmates.  I don’t know anything about their faith journeys, but my hunch is that some of them proclaim themselves to be followers of Christ. I don’t know. But what I do know is that there is so much out there to defile, so many ways in which we, ourselves, defile our world and each other. And I also know that we, who call ourselves Christians in Christ’s name, need to do something about it.

We are angry—there is so much anger out there right now that we can’t handle it. We no longer know how to listen in love, or to disagree in love. We say horrible sexist, racist, homophobic, unwelcoming, senseless, unloving things to each other without even thinking about the person on the other end of our vitriol. We say these things without ever giving a second thought to how they defile. And, sadly, the church is the often the entity on the front lines, holding signs up, screaming at people, banning folks from Christ’s table, telling them they are unclaimed and unloved. It’s pretty clear that we who are Christians need to change that. It’s pretty clear that we have more work to do in undefiling the world—in proclaiming a loving, welcoming, caring, reconciling Christ to the world, in proclaiming a saving Christ to the world.

Friends, younger folks are leaving the church in droves for many reasons, chief among them because they see the church, US, as folks who talk and say nice, fancy words about Christ, about his love and grace and forgiveness, but do nothing to mirror his actions through our own. As many friends as I have in the church, I have many others who won’t darken the doors of a sanctuary because they have been left behind, hurt, crushed by condemning words said, by judgmental things done to them by folks who call themselves followers of Christ. This is how we defile. This has to change.

It’s no accident that there are so many stories about tables and food and parties and dinners in our Biblical story. It’s no accident that the table, Christ’s table, sits before us every time we worship together. Food is part of our story together, part of Christ’s story with us. As we look at the table every time we worship, we are reminded that the invitation to the table is always given to us by Christ. We are reminded, every time we gather together, that Christ gave his life for us and was resurrected for us to offer grace and forgiveness and new life for us all. This table is a sacrament for us—the word sacrament comes from the Latin, “sacramentum,” meaning that we are consecrated through this sacrament, meaning that we are hallowed, that we are made holy through what is celebrated and remembered at this table. And because we are consecrated, because we are made holy through Christ’s grace and forgiveness, we are called and commanded to show that holiness in the world, even through, even in spit of everything that defiles it.

I’ve spent the last week reading a book called Searching for Sunday by Rachel Held Evans. Rachel grew up in Alabama and Tennessee, spending her teenage years in the town where the Scopes monkey (evolution) trial was held. She describes her church as very evangelical, very legalistic and rigid, known more for what it was against than what it was for. I can imagine the Pharisees might’ve loved a church like that. Although she was very dedicated to her church (and they to her), and although her faith is a vital part of her soul, she eventually left the church because of its fight against women’s ordination and gay rights.  She is still working through her faith journey, thinking and writing and blogging about faith. Although she often shares her frustrations about the church and the ways its members can defile, she also shares the joy of the table:

This is the purpose of the sacraments, of the church—to help us see, to point to the bread and wine, the orchids and the food pantries, the post-funeral potlucks and the post-communion dance parties (maybe she’s not talking about Presbyterians per se), and say: pay attention, this stuff matters; these things are holy…At its best, the church administers the sacraments by feeding, healing, forgiving, comforting, and welcoming home the people God loves. At its worst, the church withholds the sacraments in an attempt to lock God in a theology, a list of rules, a doctrinal statement, a building. But our God is in the business of transforming ordinary things into holy things, scraps of food into feasts and empty purification vessels into fountains of fine wine. This God knows his way around the world, so there’s no need to fear, no need to withhold, no need to stake a claim. There’s always enough—just taste and see. There’s always and ever enough.

I love her words here. Our God is indeed in the business of transforming ordinary things into holy things, of transforming us into holy things. And because God is in the business of transforming us, we are called to go out and be God’s people in the world. Instead of defiling our neighbors and our world, we are created and forgiven and made holy so that may transform them. There’s always and ever enough. Thanks be to God.





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